by Angela J Herrington MA, LSCC | Blog, Deconstructing Faith
Welcome to another exciting stop on my faith deconstruction podcast tour! This week’s featured episode is from the Queer Theology Podcast where Father Shay and I engaged in a candid conversation about faith, spirituality, and the journey of deconstruction. We...
by Angela J Herrington MA, LSCC | Blog, Deconstructing Faith, Toxic Religion
Alright, buckle up, friend, because we’re about to dive into the messy world of toxic religion and talk about what it is, how it exploits people, and how to get away so you can start recovering from religious trauma. First things first: what is toxic religion?...
by Angela J Herrington MA, LSCC | Blog, Deconstructing Faith
Attending a Faith Deconstruction Conference or a Progressive Christianity conference can offer several potential benefits depending on your personal circumstances and goals. There are conferences for almost any niche, and the Deconstruction world is no different. Each...
by Angela J Herrington MA, LSCC | Blog, Deconstructing Faith, Toxic Religion
You’re probably here because, like many who grew up in the church, you’ve realized what used to feel helpful and good had harmful theology woven into it. Maybe you’ve been thinking about stepping back from your faith community for a while but...
by Angela J Herrington MA, LSCC | Blog, Toxic Religion
Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation where the abuser makes the victim question their reality, memories, and sanity. Gaslighting is abuse. Unfortunately, it’s not limited to romantic relationships or friendships; it can also happen within...
by Angela J Herrington MA, LSCC | Blog, Christian Feminist, Deconstructing Faith, Patriarchy, Toxic Religion, Women in Leadership
Deconstructing your faith is a complex process that can be difficult to navigate, especially when you’re in a committed relationship with someone who doesn’t share your doubts and questions. It’s not easy to reconcile differing beliefs, but...
by Angela J Herrington MA, LSCC | Blog, Deconstructing Faith
“If you are finding yourself in the middle of deconstruction and trying to figure out how to handle it with kids, I hope you know you aren’t alone. Challenging and questioning your faith is a big journey, and deconstructing your faith while parenting makes...
by Angela J Herrington MA, LSCC | Blog, Toxic Religion
Spirituality can be powerful and fulfilling, but unfortunately, when we are surrounded by toxic religious communities, legalism can overwhelm a healthy faith. And let’s get real for a second. Legalism is like a pesky mosquito buzzing around your ear, and...
by Angela J Herrington MA, LSCC | Blog, Deconstructing Faith, Toxic Religion
It seems like a no-brainer that a religion founded on a commandment to “love your neighbor as yourself” would be inclusive, but sadly, that’s just not the case. The question of whether or not God supports the queer community is a divisive topic...
by Angela J Herrington MA, LSCC | Blog, Deconstructing Faith, Healthy Healer, Toxic Religion
Leaving a traumatic religious experience usually leaves people feeling lost, confused, and unsure of who you are and what you believe. Religion makes up a significant portion of your identity, and leaving it behind leaves a giant hole in who you are. But fear not, my...
