Finding resources for deconstructing your faith can be hit or miss, so I compiled a list of reputable resources for support when working through religious trauma.
The Best Faith Deconstruction Conferences & Online Summits
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Deconstructing Faith
How to Get Out of Toxic Religion
Getting out of a toxic religion isn’t easy, but it’s worth it. Remember, you deserve to live free from guilt, shame, and fear. So here are the steps you need to break free and start living the life you want.
Deconstructing Your Faith When Your Partner Isn‘t
Deconstructing your faith is a complex process that can be difficult to navigate, especially when you’re in a committed relationship with someone who doesn’t share your doubts and questions. It’s not easy to reconcile differing beliefs, but it’s essential to approach the process with grace and understanding. Here are five tips to deconstruct while in a relationship.
Deconstructing While Parenting
If you are finding yourself in the middle of deconstruction, and trying to figure out how to handle it with kids, know you aren’t alone. You’re not just navigating your spiritual journey and all of the messy questions, but you’re also responsible for guiding your children on theirs. If you are overwhelmed by it all, check out this article on my best tips for deconstructing while parenting kids.
8 Reasons Why Christians Should be 2SLGBTQIA+ Allies
The question of whether or not God supports the LGBTQIA+ community is a divisive topic within the Church. The Church has historically condemned or marginalized individuals who identify as LGBTQIA+, leading to genocide, suicide, and widespread abuse and harmful effects for those under the queer umbrella. However, it doesn’t have to be that way. Here are 8 reasons why Christians should support and advocate for the rights and dignity of LGBTQIA+ individuals.
How to Learn to Trust Yourself Again After Leaving Toxic Religion
Leaving a traumatic religious experience usually leaves you feeling lost, confused, and unsure of who you are and what you believe. Learning to trust yourself is possible, and it starts with these simple steps:
What Does it Mean to Deconstruct Your Faith?
Deconstructing your faith means questioning the beliefs and practices you’ve been taught and dismantling the structures that have kept you boxed in. It means daring to explore new ideas, challenging the status quo, and reimagining what it means to be a person of faith.
How Do You Know What is Toxic Religion?
Religion can be a beautiful thing. It can unite people, offer comfort in difficult times, and inspire individuals to lead more meaningful lives. But when religion becomes toxic, it can do just the opposite. It can tear people apart, cause pain and trauma, and inspire individuals to do unspeakable things in the name of their faith. So, what exactly is toxic religion, how can you spot it, and why should you steer clear of it? Let’s find out!
Navigating Christian Events While Deconstructing Your Faith
During deconstruction, many of us step back from attending church, but some events like funerals, weddings, and holiday celebrations draw us back into spaces that feel risky. So, what do you do when you ‘need’ to go, but your body is panicking, or you aren’t sure what to say, how to act, or if you even want to go?
It’s important to remember you can always say no to an event and respectfully decline, but sometimes you need to be in a Christian space because it’s important to you or someone you love. With that in mind, let’s dive into six ways of navigating Christian events while deconstructing your faith.
A Christian Response to Deconstruction
Do you have someone in your life who is deconstructing and you aren’t sure how to handle it? Do you just know their condemned to hell, or are on the wrong path? As much as you fear for someone, it’s not the stature you should take when talking with someone who is deconstructing their faith. I honor the trust it takes to really listen, so here’s how Christians should respond to those deconstructing their faith.