Attending a Faith Deconstruction Conference or a Progressive Christianity conference can offer several potential benefits depending on your personal circumstances and goals.

There are conferences for almost any niche, and the Deconstruction world is no different. Each has unique offerings and events and can be so helpful in your healing and exploration.

Here are a few reasons why you might consider attending a faith deconstruction conference:

Exploration and self-discovery: Events like these provide a space for individuals who are questioning or reevaluating their religious beliefs. These events often include workshops, discussions, and presentations that can help you explore your doubts, ask important questions, and gain a deeper understanding of your own beliefs. There’s no need to agree with the person sitting next to you, and you can rest knowing you are in good company with people who are looking at faith from an open palmed perspective.

Support and community: Going through deconstruction can be challenging and isolating. Attending a conference allows you to connect with others who have similar experiences and can provide support and empathy. Building a community of like-minded individuals can help you feel less alone in your journey and provide valuable perspectives and resources. What’s better than finding your new best friend because both of you were traumatized by the kid’s version of the Left Behind series?

Education and information: Conferences that explore what it means to change, leave, or transform your faith into a more open one often feature expert speakers, authors, and scholars who share their knowledge and insights on topics related to religion, spirituality, and belief systems. By attending, you can gain access to a wealth of information and broaden your understanding of different perspectives, historical contexts, and theological concepts. The ‘The Bible is Clear!” statements get a little easier to hear when you realize how not clear it can actually be, and what context can do to change a story. Maybe you feel turned off by theology, but hermeneutics, when taught from this standpoint, can unlock and release things you never realized you were holding.

Emotional and psychological healing: For many individuals, faith deconstruction can be an emotionally charged and difficult process. There’s the loss of faith, but there can also be a loss of friendships, trust, relationships, and even distance from family who don’t understand. Deconstruction events often include sessions on emotional and psychological healing, not just what you do next, but tools and resources to help you navigate this transformative journey with greater self-care and resilience. Deconstruction isn’t just tearing down toxic religion. It’s also meant to cover the journey where you discover and build a life you love, but to do that, you’ve gotta heal and not stay in the deep place of hurt forever.

Rebuilding and redefining: One of my favorite parts of conferences like this is that they inspire you to what’s possible. You see people on the other side of choosing themselves, choosing to live their full lives, choosing joy. If you wonder if you can ever pray again, or step foot in a church again, or trust a pastor, or have a sacred practice or rhythm you love, these conferences can be really soul-nourishing and healing. The classes and workshops can inspire you to explore alternative spiritual paths, philosophical frameworks, or ethical systems that align better with your evolving beliefs and values. If you are open to it, you’ll get ideas for what happens next in your life and permission to go all in.

Remember, attending a faith deconstruction conference is a personal decision.

It’s important to consider your own readiness, comfort level, and goals before deciding to participate. If you’re unsure, you may want to start with smaller events, support groups, or resources to gauge your interest and readiness before committing to a larger conference experience.

Below are a few of our favorite faith deconstruction related events. Look through the list, explore what is possible, and find one (or more) that resonates!

We’ve done our best to vett out BIPOC and 2SLGBTIA+ affirming spaces, but event topics, organizations, and leadership change all the time, so be sure to double-check before you attend! In addition to attending upcoming events, some of these events (like the Deconstructing Faith Summit.) have recordings of previous events available, and after COVID, many events either are online, or have online accessible options!

Online Faith Deconstruction Conferences & Summits:

  1. The Evolving Faith Conference: A conference offered (online and in person) dedicated to creating a safe and inclusive space for individuals navigating deconstruction and reconstruction. It features renowned speakers, authors, and artists who share their experiences and insights. Website:


  2. The Deconstructing Faith Summit: This is the summit I created and have led for the last two years. You can purchase the summit to watch here:


  3. Decon 2023: DECON 2023 is here to create a space where you can feel free to ask q
    uestions and learn from others who are going through their own deconstruction.


  4. Beyond The Wound: This event addresses religious trauma in an embodied way, focusing on healing the integrated self: body, mind, heart (soul/spirit/emotion/psyche).


  5. Open Table Conferences: As God Does/The Open Table Conference, we are committed to humble, compassionate conversation rooted in a God who incarnated his Love.


  6. Christian Feminism Events: At the time I’m writing this blog, there are no new events scheduled, but Christian Feminism has several recorded sessions available on their website.


  7. Southern Lights Conference: This self-described adventure in Progressive Christianity has online and in person options.

In-person conferences & retreats that hold space for exploring deconstruction:

  1. The Liturgists Gathering: An annual gathering organized by The Liturgists, a collective of artists, writers, and musicians. The conference focuses on exploring questions of faith, doubt, and deconstruction through art, music, and thoughtful dialogue. Website:

  2. The Evolving Faith Conference: A conference (online and in person) dedicated to creating a safe and inclusive space for individuals navigating what it means to pull apart your faith, step away from it, and even what reconstruction can be for you. It features renowned speakers, authors, and artists who share their experiences and insights. Website:

  3. Reclamation Collective Fall Retreat: This weekend retreat will offer a curated itinerary of invitations for those navigating religious trauma and/or spiritual abuse seeking to process and honor their reclamation work in a community context.

  4. Q Christian Fellowship Conference: (online and in person)The Q Christian Fellowship Conference is an annual gathering where LGBTQ+ Christians, parents, and allies: gather for worship, fellowship, workshops, and keynote speakers; make lifelong friendships or reunite with those friends; experience healing, transformation, and hope; witness the fullness of God’s love and affirmation through each other.

  5. The Wild Goose Festival: While not exclusively focused on deconstruction, this festival explores the intersection of spirituality, justice, and art. It encourages open and honest conversations about faith, doubt, and social issues. Website:

  6. The Faith and Doubt Conference: Hosted by the Journey Center in California, this conference seeks to provide a safe space for exploring the complexities of faith, doubt, and spiritual transformation. It features workshops, keynote speakers, and interactive discussions. Website:

  7. Southern Lights Conference: This self-described adventure in Progressive Christianity has online and in-person options.

  8. ORTCON 23:  ORTCON23 brings together scholars, leaders, pastors, and activists. The conference provides workshops, lectures, and social activities to deepen relationships and present new ways of imagining God and the universe.

  9. The Theology Beer Camp: While not exclusively focused on belief changes and reconstruction, this conference offers a platform for honest conversations about theology, doubt, and spiritual journeys. Website:

  10. Recovering From Religion: The Recovering from Religion Fall Excursion is to help those struggling with doubt, seeking answers, and moving away from religion and a religious lifestyle.

  11. The Raven Foundation Collaborators Conference: The Collaborators Conference for the Flourishing of Nonviolent Christianity was a one-time online event fostering learning, empowerment, and community in August 2020. Recordings are posted on their website.

  12. Ireland Retreats: While not technically a deconstruction-related event, these retreats sometimes invite speakers you’ll recognize. Plus, they’re in Ireland, so why not attend? LOL, A variety of events dedicated to helping people explore the possibility of learning how to live better as one diverse community rather than many divided communities.
  13. Post-Evangelical Collection: The Post-Evangelical Collective exists to connect, cultivate, and resource post-evangelical churches. We are church leaders, artists, and other stakeholders who find ourselves estranged from the dominant expressions of American Christianity. They host regional and national gatherings.

Please keep in mind that these faith deconstruction conferences may have changed or evolved over time, and there may be other conferences or events that cater specifically to deconstruction and untangling from toxic religion. It’s advisable to research and verify the details of any conference before making plans to attend.

Hungry for more? Here are a few popular faith deconstruction related posts you’ll find helpful: 

What Does it Mean to Deconstruct Your Faith? 

Sometimes You Have to Leave the Church to Find God

Is Deconstructing Your Faith Biblical?

8 Reasons Why Christians Should be 2SLGBTQIA+ Allies

Deconstructing While Parenting

How to Get Out of Toxic Religion

The Best Faith Deconstruction Conferences & Online Summits

Deconstructing Your Faith When Your Partner Isn‘t

The Best Books for Deconstructing Your Faith

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Wondering where to find a faith deconstruction confererence or event? Click here for my recommended list.
Wondering where to find a faith deconstruction confererence or event? Click here for my recommended list.