by Angela J Herrington MA, LSCC | Blog, Deconstructing Faith, toxic religion
You’re probably here because, like many who grew up in the church, you’ve realized what used to feel helpful and good had harmful theology woven into it. Maybe you’ve been thinking about stepping back from your faith community for a while but...
by Angela J Herrington MA, LSCC | Blog, toxic religion
 Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation where the abuser makes the victim question their reality, memories, and sanity. Gaslighting is abuse. Unfortunately, it’s not limited to romantic relationships or friendships; it can also happen within...
by Angela J Herrington MA, LSCC | Blog, Deconstructing Faith
Leaving a traumatic religious experience usually leaves people feeling lost, confused, and unsure of who you are and what you believe. Religion makes up a significant portion of your identity, and leaving it behind leaves a giant hole in who you are. But fear not, my...
by Angela J Herrington MA, LSCC | Deconstructing Faith, Patriarchy
Religion can be a beautiful thing. It can unite people, offer comfort in difficult times, and inspire individuals to lead more meaningful lives. But when religion becomes toxic, it can do just the opposite. It tears people apart, causes deep trauma, and allows...
by Angela J Herrington MA, LSCC | Blog, Deconstructing Faith
There’s something rotten in Denmark and exvangelicals are just over it, with good reason. Perhaps you’ve seen the reports from conservative research group Barna that 1 in 3 practicing Christians stopped attending church during the pandemic. A March 2021 article from...
