“This is all just so….overwhelming.”
I hear this constantly from women in ministry AND I have said it at least million times myself. Feeling overwhelmed isn’t a weakness or sin. Often it means you are in a transitional stage where life is changing and you’re sensing the conflict between the old and the new.
The key to resolving that conflict, is to give yourself permission to do what you can with what resources you have right now.
The honest truth is I could grow my ministry faster if my kids weren’t home, my kids could have more of my attention if I wasn’t leading a ministry, and my house would look so much better if I wasn’t in the middle of writing a book.
But here’s the thing: God has called me to build a ministry, have a big family, and write a book. So He must know there’s a healthy balancing place and I’ll likely find it centered around His plan for me.
There are lots of tips to help you get organized that will make your life a little less hectic, like cutting back on TV watching, getting a good organizer, doubling meals and freezing the extra one, but you’ve got be OK with letting non-urgent things slide if God is directing your attention towards something else.
Remember ministry is a process and you’ll continue to change and grow as your ministry changes and grows.
When God calls you to move towards Him, you have to move away from where you’re at right now. Often times we picture spiritual growth as a road. To move forward (to grow) you simply put one foot in front of the other. Whether you’re running, walking, or crawling, you just keep pushing forward. From my experience it’s more like monkey bars.
The only way to reach the bar God is putting in front of you, is to let go of the one behind you.
It doesn’t seem too difficult until you realize this shift will leave you dangling by one hand! But the longer you hang on to the bar behind you, the more weary you grow. My best advice to move past this overstretched position is to carve out some quiet time to ask God what you can let go of and then do it! You may be surprised how much momentum you pick up when you let go of something that’s holding you back.
What do you do when your ministry or life in general becomes overwhelming? I want to know! Post your thoughts in the comments and don’t forget to join the conversation over in our group of like minded women, Christian Women Who Lead.
Christian Life and Leadership Coach , Angela J Herrington, loves helping women find freedom and fulfillment in their God given calling. She teaches women how to recognize, cultivate, and unleash their God given leadership ability. A true Gen Xer-Angela loves thinking outside the box, combining things that are seemingly unrelated, and helping women create a unique life that perfectly suits their soul.
With 8 years of life, business, social media, and leadership coaching under her belt Angela a dynamic speaker and writer who creates enormous value for her audiences. She is known for crushing complex topics down to bite sized pieces and sending her audience home with actionable steps to apply their learning.
Angela is a Lark’s Song Certified Life Coach who reaches hundreds of thousands of women in 40+ countries each month on Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest and two blogs.
As the founder of Broken Beautiful BOLD Women’s Ministry, AngelaJHerrington.com, Christian Women Who Lead, The Calling Course, The Impact Incubator, and the XGen Christian Women’s Leadership Project, Angela receives rave reviews at women’s ministry events, writer’s conferences, and small business workshops.
Angela, her husband, and five children live in her home state of Indiana. Angela has served on the Board of Directors for Christian Coaches International, as Vice Chair of the Carey Services Board of Directors, and held multiple positions in her local church, scouting organizations, and schools.
She holds a BA in Biblical Studies from Indiana Wesleyan and a Master’s in Leadership from Wesley Seminary. Angela’s short story “The Turkey Trail“ was published in the collection Naturally Yours: Stories About Indiana’s State Parks and Reservoirs. She has been published in Hope for Women and HOPE is Now magazines.